| May 24, 2008 - Today I
started the trip back home after a long night of illness. I
don't know what happened, but I got very sick on this trip.
There were some doctors on my flight who had been in Guatemala on a missions
trip. One of them approached me on the plane and asked what was
wrong (I looked that bad??!?!). They gave me some medicine for
nausea and it knocked me out! I didn't throw up anymore, but I
couldn't keep my eyes open either. I'm not sure how I got
through customs and to my gate in Dallas. I actually fell asleep
waiting for my connecting flight with my laptop charging in front of me and
my purse behind me. I was freaked out when I woke up and
found out that I had fallen asleep! I'm sure my angels were close by
though, I could almost here them say "she's going down boys, she's going
down!". Anyway, I made it home --SOMEHOW-- and crashed on
my family after being home for a whole hour. It was good to be
home, but it was better to be in bed! |
| May 23, 2008 - Rebekah slept all night
and was comfortable in my presence. We had a lazy morning
playing together in the room and then went down for breakfast. I
was noticing that she was not a good eater, either with liquids or solids.
We headed to the neurologist around 12N and she underwent a through exam
from him, parts of which she wasn't too happy with :(( In
the end, he said she was totally on track with her development and that she
was just "globally petite". He ordered a thyroid test to see if
her appetite problems where due to a hormonal problem. He would
also like her to see a physical therapist so that could monitor her
development. She is supposed to see the pediatirican again in a
month and him again in two months for follow-up. That evening I
gave her back to her foster mom with detailed dietary instructions and the
doctors information. I am hopeful that we can get her growing
again by adjusting her formula and changing her solids. It
was hard to leave her again, it's always so hard to say goodbye.
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May 22, 2008 - I started the day meeting
with Adoption Supervisors to discuss my case. Their services
sound wonderful and I'll need to discuss this option with Tim.
Afterwards I headed over to the pediatrician to meet my daughter again
and have her examined. She came right to me, cuddling, laughing
and playing with my necklace. It was so easy! I was
expecting her to be hesitant or nervous, but not the case with this little
"Barbie", as her foster mom calls her. When we got to the
doctor's appointment we discovered that she is not growing well. Her
head circumference was a big point of concern and the pediatrician
immediately sent us down for a CT scan. He called me a few hours
later to say that the scan was perfectly normal (thank goodness) but he
still wanted me to see a pediatric neurologist the next afternoon just to be
sure. I took Rebekah back to the hotel with me for a night of
bonding and getting to know each other. It was the first night we ever
shared together! |
| May 21, 2008 - This was an
eventful day! My driver and translator arrive at 10:00 AM
and we headed to my attorney's office. My only goal for this day was
to get my file back into PGN. I didn't even plan to see the baby
today at all because I didn't know how long it would take to get through the
paperwork. We arrived and had to endure a some tense moments
trying to get the answers I was demanding. There were some
heated words and a little bit of back and forth debate as we tried to get to
the bottom of the problem. After about an hour a driver returned
with a receipt from PGN and I was told my file had (magically) been
resubmitted! Wow, it only took me showing up in the office after
5 long weeks of waiting, what are the odds of that. In any case,
I headed to PGN to confirm that indeed my file had been resubmitted.
It was such a relief to know that it was finally done and now I could move
on with my visit trip. I waited all afternoon to hear if a
doctor's appointment had been set for the next day and also an appointment
with Adoption Supervisors to discuss their services. I ended up
going to see the new Chronicles of Narnia movie at the mall attached to my
hotel. It was so much fun to see my first movie in a foreign
country, luckily for me it was in English with Spanish subtitles.
I finally learned both appointments were confirmed but not until the next
morning. I would have to wait a few more hours to visit with my
daughter. |
| May 20, 2009 - Today I leave
on my 6th trip to Guatemala. I am heavy-hearted about leaving
home alone, but know I have to do this. It is time to return to
this land and get my baby's case moving forward. I arrive at the
hotel around 9:30PM and crash after a long day of traveling. |
| May 19, 2008 - Today (Mon) I
find out at 3PM that my file was not resubmitted to PGN. That
settles it, tomorrow I leave for Guatemala! |
| May 18, 2008 - Today (Sun)
we line up a translator, tentatively book my frequent flyer miles and begin
to make arrangements for our children's week. If I find
out tomorrow my document has been translated over the weekend, I will not
go. If however it is not done, I will leave on Tuesday with the hopes
of getting us back in PGN before I leave the country. I am
assured today that "if God be for me, who can be against me" as I
head back to Guatemala. Not to mention that I get to hold our
baby again :)) It's going to be a busy day! |
| May 17, 2008 - Today (Sat)
Tim and I discuss the possibility of a quick trip to resolve this problem
before we leave on vacation. I will have to leave on Tuesday in order
to squeeze it in, which is only 3 days away. We start making
connections to find a translator in Guatemala through a missionary friend in
Antigua. If all the pieces come together quickly, I will
go. |
| May 16, 2008 - Today we call
again and cannot talk to the attorney. They are claiming a
problem with their translator and that my document is still not done.
They assured Debbie it will get done over the weekend (yeah, right!).
My agency sends another email trying to get this resolved. |
| May 15, 2008 - My spanish-speaking
friend, Debbie, calls my attorney and demands to speak to him. We
cannot get through......"call tomorrow at 10 AM" we're told...... |
| May 14, 2008 - Today I call
PGN and found out that my file is still not back in PGN. Now I'm
steaming..... |
| May 6, 2008 - Tonight I
received a call from my agency's director who is in Guatemala pressing for
progress on several cases. She has been told that my document
will be completed this week and submitted to PGN by Friday, May 9th.
Finally, some news! |
| May 5, 2008 - Today
Guatemala announced that adoptions would be suspended for a month and that
every birthmother relinquishing her baby would be interviewed by PGN.
This has been shocking news to the adoption community and one that questions
the authority of PGN or CNA to conduct these interviews. There is
nothing to do about this now, but watch the newsgroups and boards and see
how this plays out. |
| April 24, 2008 - Today I
called the attorney's office myself and got someone who spoke a little
English. She said my document was in translation and that it
would be submitted to PGN next week. Tomorrow will mark 1 month that
we have been out now for this ridiculous problem. I also
emailed my foster family because I find that today I could really use some
information about our little princess. I hope they can send some
news and pictures to me soon. It's almost been 1 year now since
we decided to adopt a second child from Guatemala. This has been
another very long process for our family. |
| April 22, 2008 - Today I
called PGN and asked about our case number. The file has never
been resubmitted with the addendum. Ok, now I'm
steaming......who is wasting time now???????? Again, no reply to my
email inquiries. |
| April 21, 2008 - Today I
sent and email asking about our status. I've not heard anything about
this addendum that was so badly needed for our case. No reply. |
| April 14, 2008 - Today the
document arrived in Guatemala. It will need to be translated and
authenticated there before PGN. I'll give them until the end of
the week before I start asking questions. |
| April 11, 2008 - Today our
fully-authenticated homestudy addendum arrived and we quickly prepared the
international airway bill for Guatemala. It should be in my
attorney's office sometime Monday. |
| April 7, 2008 - Today we
picked up the notarized homestudy addendum which clearly (well, at least I
think it does) spells out our approval for both Dennis and Rebekah.
My husband drove it to our state's capital today and then we over-nighted it
to the courier service so it would get through the consulate quickly.
Over the weekend I have "processed" all of my frustration and have
come to terms with the fact that we are going to lose a month now, that is
just the reality of our situation. |
| April 4, 2008 - Well, the
plan I had two days ago is already being changed! Today my
friend who called for me on Wednesday received a call from another person in
our attorney's office. Basically, she told her that we should
stop wasting time and get the addendum done. I was blown
away, really....that I should stop wasting time? Wasn't I
the one that notified them about being out of PGN in the first place?
And, what about the month in December when our file wasn't taken across the
street and filed with PGN that caused us to have months of delays for the
CNA (see below). Oh, my goodness! My friend
told her that we were just trying to clarify what they already had, but that
we were already working on the addendum just in case. Ok,
breathe Dawn, you just need to breathe............. |
| April 2, 2008 - Today a
Spanish-speaking friend of ours contacted the attorney's office to discuss
the nature of our previo. We pointed out to them that the
current homestudy does state we are allowed to adopt 2 children.
The problem is there is a comma on the bottom of page 1 and then the
approval is completed on the top of page 2. She expressed our
concern that maybe the document was not translated accurately.
The secretary she spoke with told her that she would highlight this area,
discuss with our attorney and resubmit us to PGN. I have decided
to go ahead and work on an addendum in case we kicked back out again, but at
least there is a chance now that our file can move on through PGN during
this interim period. Also, I am going to have to get our 171H
renewed because our international approval for adoption expires in June.
There is no way she'll be home before that. My social worker
tells me that it will require a homestudy update which involves more
money (of course), more fingerprints and more paperwork. ei, ei,
ei.....will this EVER end? |
| March 28, 2008 - PREVIO!
It was too good to be true that we would have exited PGN in 5 short weeks.
Apparently the PGN attorneys do not like the way our homestudy is written
for the second child. Our social worker may need to draft an
addendum to the homestudy and then we must get that documented
authenticated. This could take weeks and hundreds more dollars
to get it to Guatemala. What kills me is that our homestudy
clearly allows for 2 children and is written in 3 different areas.
I am waiting on further instructions on how we are to proceed.
Oh baby girl, it's going to be awhile now! What a serious bummer.
Will we get this child home for a first birthday party in July? |
| March 27, 2008 - Still
waiting............................... |
| March 26, 2008 - My attorney
went to PGN, but our file was not at the window. They will go
back tomorrow. |
| March 25, 2008 - Today PGN
told me that our case is out, but they didn't know if it was a previo or
approved. I notified my attorney of the information and now we
wait for them to get the file and let us know what is going on.
Is our little girl going to be home in 4-6 weeks? Oh, the
waiting............. |
| March 16, 2008 - We received a new
medical report today. Our little girl is now 8 months old.
She weights 14 lbs, 5oz and is 26 inches long. The doctors
report said she is developing normally and can even say one syllable words.
She even has her 1st tooth! It also says she is "smiley and curious"
with a "strong cry". We have now been in PGN for 4 weeks and
have no other news on our case at this time.
Rebekah's foster mom tells us that she is a delightful baby who lights up a
room with her smile. We can't wait to see her again and get to
know her for ourselves. |

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March 6, 2008 - Tonight we
were surprised to find another email from our foster family with some more
pictures of our baby! She is such a little peanut :)
The clothing we are sending to her is arriving next week and her foster mom
will be picking it up at the Marriott on March 12th. It's
all we can do right now, but at least it is something.
I've been reading posts today the PGN is working much faster than before.
There are families getting out in 3 weeks these days! I'm setting my
face for the long haul and will be pleasantly surprised if things move
quicker than expected. Tomorrow will mark 2 weeks in PGN for us
with this adoption. |
| March 3, 2008 - We received
word today that Rebekah's file has been in PGN since February 22nd.
I quickly called Guatemala to confirm that information and found it to be
true. PGN also gave me our case number and told me we were with the
first reviewer. I'm still concerned because I do not know if our new
medical reports were submitted in our file. If not we are facing
a kick out for sure, which is especially sad because our new medicals
arrived on Feb 19th. I will breathe much easier if we
could only find out which documents were submitted to PGN..........and the
endless waiting continues.......... |
| February 19, 2009 - We have made contact
with our foster family directly to get some news and photos of our daughter.
Look how big our little girl has gotten in the past few months!
She's outgrown all of the clothes we left in October, so we've made
arrangements to send items to her with another adoptive family who has
graciously agreed to carry it in-country for us. The foster family
also told us she is getting her first tooth! We are still
waiting to hear if we've been submitted to PGN, but in the meantime we are
enjoying the new photos. It means so much to have access to the foster
family after all these months of silence on our case and about our daughter.
We have exchanged several emails already and I hope this can continue until
we can bring her home. |

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| February 18, 2008 - Today my
sister and BIL leave to pick up our newest nephew from Ethiopia.
Hey baby girl in Guatemala....you're going to have such a lovely family to
come home to! |
| February 15, 2008 - Today we
receive our daughter's registration number!!! YEAH!!! Our
documents arrive in Guatemala this afternoon and we are ready for PGN.
I hope to get that news next week otherwise I'm afraid I'll get on a plane
and go do it myself. This mistake by our attorney's has
already cost us for 2 months of a delay and close to $1,000 in foster care
and document updates. Tonight I went shopping to buy baby
Rebekah some larger clothes. I'm sure she has outgrown
everything I left in October. I am hoping to find someone who
will carry them in country for me. |
| February 14, 2008 -
Valentine's Day here in the US and I overnight the paperwork to Guatemala! |
| February 13, 2008 - Our
documents have been picked from the Guatemalan Consulate in Chicago and are
on their way back to us. Round 3 of medicals.....how is it
possible we have been doing this for so long? |
| February 11, 2008 - Monday
and I have finally heard that Rebekah is officially registered.
I feel raw after these past weeks, but I am so relieved to have this news.
I have asked that the attorney waits for my new medicals before submitting
us to PGN, but we still don't have a registration number so I don't that we
will be delayed much because of our dossier. |
| February 10, 2008 - It's
Sunday and I'm glued to the various news sites at
http://www.guatadopt.com and
http://www.adaguatemala.org/English/news/
It all seems incredibly negative and one wonders how in the world they can
get all of these cases registered?? |
| February 9, 2008 - The CNA
made little progress today on registering cases. There have been
various reports of lawyers lined up out the door with files a foot thick.
I have no idea where my attorney is in the process, I just pray she is
there. |
| February 8, 2008 --BIG
NEWS!!! Talk about a rollercoaster ride! Late this
afternoon Guatemala has released that the new CA is functioning and all the
lawyers have 4 days to get 2800 in-process cases registered AGAIN!!!
They are planning to stay open all weekend to accommodate the lawyers and
finally get cases registered. Whatever cases do not get through
by Tuesday, Feb 12th will not be grandfathered into the system and will be
subject to the new adoption process....whatever that will be....whenever
that will be. The US DOS has issued the following statement
regarding this process:
http://travel.state.gov/family/adoption/intercountry/intercountry_3948.html |
| February 8, 2008 - Today I
sent Tim to Springfield to get our new medicals authenticated.
We then sent them to the courier service to get them authenticated by the
consulate. I decided that if everything was still on hold in
Guatemala we should be at least getting our outdated medicals done.
I hate to spend the additional money in case the old ones go through, but I
would kick myself if we lost 8 more weeks on previo that could have
been avoided. So, updating our dossier ....for the 3rd
time....and hoping beyond hope that the CA will get moving! |
| February 1, 2008 - Daily the
news gets more dreadful in Guatemala. The CNA is a mess and not
a single case has been issued the certificate of registration.
Today's news reports that there are 2 CNA's functioning, people are leaving
and new people are starting. Does anyone in Guatemala have a
plan? I'm thinking I need to travel there again, but Tim doesn't
think I should go and leave Dennis. This is all so helpless?
How can I lose a baby I got to name?????? |
| January 21, 2008 - Today the
Central Authority in Guatemala starting the registration procedure for all
cases currently in-process. We were told that our attorney got
all of her cases registered today and within a week we should receive the
certificate of registration. Once we have that our file should
go immediately to PGN. It looks like we will have lost 2
months of our baby's life because our file was not submitted to PGN prior to
the end of the year. I suppose it could be worse. I
am at least grateful that the CA started up sooner than anyone expected.
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January 15, 2008 - Tonight we were
pleased to get recent medicals and pictures of our little Rebekah who is 6
months old today. She is now sitting up with assistance,
babbling and playing with toys. She is so beautiful!
The doctors report indicates she is 12lbs, 14oz and 25-inches long.
It ached a bit tonight to see this baby we thought would be home in March.
We are still reeling from our attorney's failure to submit us to PGN before
the end of December. It was good to hear that Guatemala
swore in members of their newly-created Central Authority late last week.
Maybe this new step in the process will be implemented soon so that our case
can finally proceed to PGN. |
| January 11, 2008 - What a difference a
day makes! I carefully drafted a reply email to the request for
our homestudy stating our concerns with the overall handling of our case,
the complete lack of information on our baby and the failure to submit our
case to PGN before the end of the year. Within a few hours
we received word not only on our case, but also our baby girl!
Our homestudy was found in the office afterall and the file complete.
We did not, however, get a reason as to why we were not filed and I'm still
fuming about that issue. We also received an apology for
the delay in the medicals and baby updates along with the data from
November. She was 11 lbs and 23.6-inches long at 4 1/2 months.
The baby did not see the pediatrician in December due to the holidays and
vacations. At least we know that she is healthy and
growing well, even if the rest of our case is unfortunately delayed.
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| January 10, 2008 - Today we
finally hear from our attorney in Guatemala, although it certainly was not
the information we had been waiting for since the end of November!
We were asked to re-submit our homestudy for our dossier to be complete so
that the file would be ready for PGN. I was furious,
beyond belief, that 6 months after our dossier arrived in Guatemala we were
being informed something was missing. I decided to sleep on my
response so that I would not say something I'd regret in the morning.
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| January 7, 2008 - After
weeks of trying to get an answer from our attorney or getting someone to
speak English at PGN we finally get an answer on our case.
For some unfathomable reason our case was not submitted to PGN before the
end of the year. We are now subject to the new rules going
into effect in Guatemala requiring us to be registered with a new division
called the Central Authority (CA). The problem is that the
CA is not established yet! Today we have no idea how long it
will take to get us registered so that our filed can be submitted to PGN and
on with our case. We are heartbroken at another, totally
avoidable delay in our adoption. |
| December 11, 2007 - Tonight
we received our PA via email from the US Embassy. It came on day 43,
which is much quicker that Dennis' PA last spring. We should be
ready to enter PGN, although we are waiting on confirmation from our
attorney that we have exited Family Court. We haven't received
any update on Rebekah or our case in almost 6 weeks now, so we are anxious
to hear some news from Guatemala. If everything flows smoothly
during PGN we could bring Rebekah home as early as March! |
| November 2, 2007 - Today we
sent off the money orders to our agency to have Rebekah's DNA results
authenticated. We should have this document back during
the wait on for PA. |
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October 30,2007 - Today we received our
DNA match on baby Rebekah! Yeah, another hurdle behind us in her
process. We also received new pictures and our monthly medical.
Our little sweetie is now 9lbs & 13 oz, 23-inches long at 3.5 mos.
It looks like she is finally starting to gain some weight, even though she
is now losing her newborn hair! Now we wait, once again, on the
US Embassy to issue our Pre-Approval(PA). The DNA results also
arrived at the embassy today - DAY 1 on the PA count! |
| October 11, 2007 - Today,
over breakfast, we learned that Rebekah's birthmother was in town for DNA
and the social worker interview. We were given the
unbelievable opportunity to be present at the DNA lab and meet her mother.
We hurried out to meet our attorney and left Dennis with our agency director
who was also in Guatemala. We were able to ask some important
questions and take pictures together. The video and photos we
took will be priceless to us and one day, to our little Rebekah.
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| October 10, 2007 - Today was Dennis'
embassy appointment. He is finally ours now after almost 12 full
months of waiting. We are hoping that this adoption goes a
little quicker, although not much has happened so far. We
spent this afternoon with our baby girl at the Marriott. It was
wonderful to share some bonding time with her. She has a very
gentle nature and seems to be a very pleasant baby. Dennis
seemed to know she was smaller and was, for the most part, fairly gentle
around her in the bouncy chair. We gave her back to her foster mom in
the evening along with a bouncy chair and more clothes until we can see her
again. |

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| October 5, 2007 - Today our
file entered family court in Guatemala. We are still waiting on
DNA, but at least some forward motion is occuring on this case.
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September 29, 2007 - Rebekah
is now 2 1/2 months old and is such a cutie! This weekend we received
our first monthly report including medical data and photos.
She is now 8 pounds, 7 ounces and is 21.7-inches long. We are
looking forward to visiting with her again next week when we arrive in
Guatemala to bring Dennis home. |
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| September 26, 2007 - Today
the final set of updated documents arrive back from the Guatemalan
consulate. We'll take these items for her dossier along with us
to Guatemala next week. |
| September 20, 2007 -
FINALLY, today we get some long awaited news on Baby Rebekah's case.
Her DNA has been authorized by the Embassy. Now we are waiting to hear
that the test has been taken. |
| September 20, 2007 - Today
our 12 replacement documents for our dossier were submitted to the
Guatemalan consulate for authentication. |
| September 19, 2007 - Today
Tim returned to Springfield on a second attempt for authentication.
Everything went perfectly this time and we were able to forward the packet
on to the courier, There's Always Hope, who will get them through the
Guatemalan consulate. |
| September 18, 2007 - Today
Tim took 12 documents to our state capitol for authentication.
These are replacements for Rebekah's dossier since what we originally
submitted will expire in October. The problem was that when they
reviewed the files they found that the notary had not stamped our papers!
We couldn't get them authenticated and it meant another 150-mile round trip
to Springfield. |
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August 29, 2007 - Finally tonight we get
to visit with our baby Rebekah. She arrived at the hotel around
8PM. She is such a little angel, tiny and petite. The kids
all got to kiss and snuggle her as we prayed God's covering over her until
she can join us forever. We met her foster mom and her
son. This is the only baby she is caring for now and she seems
very devoted to her care. We gave her all the clothes and
blankets we brought and gave them to her foster mom. We also brought
an album filled with photos of her new family so she could be see images of
us until we can meet her again. |
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August 27, 2007 - Tonight
I'm sitting on the airplane enroute to Guatemala thinking about the wonders
that lie ahead for tomorrow. I'm sitting under the shadow of a full
moon off my shoulder, Mexico racing by below and my heart contemplating the
wonder of these adoptions. Tomorrow I claim baby Dennis
forever, after 11 long months! Tomorrow I will hold sweet
Rebekah for the first time as we embark on our journey to bring her
home. Tomorrow my children will meet their new brother and
sister and we will begin a new journey of building a forever family.
Tomorrow, in the lobby of the Grank Tikal, a new family will be born. |
| August 24, 2007 - There are
documents in Rebekah's dossier that will expire in October. We
are racing around getting a few replacements her case needs now because I
will be out of town for September. Tim will have the job of
getting this set of docs authenticated by the State and the Consulate this
time! Today we were fingerprinted...for the 5th time in
the past year....to get an updated state police clearance report.
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| August 20, 2007 - We have
been advised that baby Dennis needs us to come soon, so we will be leaving
one week from today. We will live in Antigua, Guatemala for
month of September until Dennis has his visa and can come home. This
means that we will get to visit with our new baby girl next week!
We are very excited to meet our little Rebekah. |
| August 1, 2007 - Today our
POA on Rebekah was send to Guatemala. Now we wait on her DNA test and
Family Court to begin. |
| July 25, 2007 - Today I loaded the kids
in the van and headed to our state capitol to get our Power of Attorney
authenticated. We put 200 miles on the car today, but that was
better than waiting 7-10 days to for processing via Federal Express.
We took some time to visit the sites in Springfield while we were
there. When we got home we then shipped the entire packet to a courier
for processing through the Guatemalan Consulate in Chicago. We hope to
get the POA back next week and get it to our attorney quickly so she can get
us in Family Court and order the DNA test. |

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| July 24, 2007 - Today we
wire $10,250 to Guatemala to officially accept referral of baby Rebekah.
This is the first half of our country fee. She's ours!
Here we go again................. |
| July 20, 2007 - Finally the photos of our
beauty arrive! She is lovely and tiny, how long will it be
before I can hold her in my arms? The kids circled around me as
we opened the email and got our first glimpse of our new daughter and
sister. The resemblance to some of Isabelle's newborn photos is
unbelievable. She is 19-inches long, 5-pounds 13-ounces at 5 days old.
The pediatrician examined her today and pronounced her healthy and normal.
Now I begin a few days of paperwork to accept her referral and get our Power
of Attorney to Guatemala where our dossier is waiting and ready to go.
At this point we are not planning to visit Rebekah until our pick-up trip
for Dennis. |
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| July 18, 2007 - Today we found out that
another baby girl was born on Sunday, July 15th. She is
healthy and the birth mother has agreed to using the name we have selected!
We are anxiously waiting on photos and her medical file so we can accept
this baby's referral. It's been a long week of waiting again!
Just when I think we can't wait any longer, another week passes
by............... |
| July 13, 2007 - Today we have discussed
the situation with our pediatrician and she has advised us to say no to this
particular referral. Without advanced testing, she would have no
way of determining the exact impact of the disease this little girl is
carrying. We have 4 other children in our home (including Dennis
who will be here soon) to consider and it is with heavy hearts that we turn
down our first referral. |
| July 12, 2007 - Tonight we received
another phone call that this baby has some serious medical issues.
Tim and I are praying about this referral and might have to make the tough
decision of turning this one down. It is difficult, but so many
adoptive parents are faced with these dilemmas every day. |
| July 10, 2007 - Tonight we received
information about a referral for a baby girl who was born on Monday, July
9th. She was born via c-section and her mother was still in the
hospital. We will have the complete medicals and photos in a few
days so that we can decide if this is our baby girl. However, 45
minutes after we got this phone call our son, Michael, fell and fractured
his elbow. It was a day of tremendous highs and lows all within
a 1 hour period of time. |
| July 10, 2007 - Today we finalized the
name for our daughter, whenever she should arrive! I woke up
with a Bible story on my heart and as I read it through realized what we
should name her. I'm excited to tell her one day the reason
behind her name, what it means to me and the story of how it came to us.
We'll reveal it once we have a face to put along side the announcement.
Wouldn't it be something if today was indeed her birthday? |
| July 4, 2007 - Today we celebrate
Independence Day for the United States and yet my mind is certainly in
Guatemala. We've heard nothing about either case lately
and I feel very raw these days. I am learning to trust God
in deeper ways than ever before and am trying to rest in the fact that He
has all the pieces lined up for our children and we will see what is planned
very soon. Today we started preparing the nursery for Dennis,
although we'll need another crib before Little Miss comes into our home.
Dear Baby Girl, Are you born yet? Do you know we are
waiting and longing to celebrate your birth? |
| June 25, 2007 - The day has arrived!
We can officially accept a referral anytime now that Dennis is 9 months old.
Today we learned some disappointing news about Dennis' adoption and I think
it's all so hard to take because we are living with our hearts separated in
2 places. I hope that a referral comes quickly and we can meet
our newest child soon. |
| June 8, 2007 - Today we learned that our
dossier is at the Department of Foreign Affairs in Guatemala being
translated into Spanish. We can accept a referral anytime after
June 25th, so we are beginning to watch the calendar and pray for the safe
arrival of our little lady. |
| May 18, 2007 - It's official! Our
dossier is off to Guatemala to start the process for our new (and last!)
daughter. |
| May 16, 2007 - Today our fully
authenticated dossier is sent to the agency for final review and then off to
Guatemala. I was overwhelmed all day today as I prepared this second
packet, just like the day we officially accepted the referral of Dennis.
It is overwhelming to think our baby will be born in about 6 more weeks.
The dossier will be translated upon it's arrival in Guatemala and be ready
to begin the process once Little Miss is born. Now we wait for her
birth! |
| May 12, 2007 - Today our updated 171H
arrived approving us to adopt 2 children from Guatemala! This
time around the paperwork is so much easier. It's either that I
know what to do or that our timing is perfect! I think it may be
a little of both of those things. It's amazing for me to think
about the fact that God is positioning our family for these angels from
Guatemala before they were even born. Such a destiny date we
have with this son and daughter! |
| May 11, 2007 - Today our dossier is
delivered to the Guatemalan consulate for authentication. We also wire
the agency fee to officially begin this adoption and an advance on our
country fee. The agency fee is reduced in 1/2 since we are
beginning this adoption prior to the completion of Dennis'. We
have agreed to work with Carla again as our facilitator in Guatemala. We
have also asked Carla to find out if this new baby might be fostered by the
same Mommy as Dennis so they can be together prior to coming home.
There is a strong possibility that we might be able to name her at birth!
So, our family is making lists and comparing favorites. We must
finalize her name by the end of June and send to Carla so she can be there
at the birth for naming. It's all so exciting. |
| May 10, 2007 - This week I work on
updating a few documents in our dossier that need updated for the adoption
of a baby girl. There are only 5 pieces of our dossier that need to be
redone by the Illinois Secretary of State. Today Tim
drives these documents to Springfield to get the state seals.
After these items are done our entire dossier of 18 different documents are
sent to a courier who will deliver them to the Guatemalan consulate for
authentication. |
| April 30, 2007 - Today our updated
homestudy arrives at our home while I am in Guatemala visiting baby Dennis.
Tim ships it overnight to USCIS in Chicago to get our 171H updated.
While in Guatemala I talk to Carla, our facilitator for Dennis, about the
possibility of beginning a second adoption. She is very excited
that we are considering starting again, this time for a baby girl.
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| April 16, 2007 - Today we learn that if
our homestudy is updated for two children we can get our 171H approved for a
second baby with no additional fees. We discuss the
possibility with our social worker and she advised that while we are
approved for 2 children, they must be at least 9 months apart.
This means that we can accept a baby born anytime after June 25, 2007.
We decide to have our homestudy re-written and begin to talk about the
possibility of baby #2 with our kiddos. Everyone thinks a baby girl
would be a perfect way to end our family! |
| April 13, 2007 - A situation occurs
which begins us thinking about whether are not we are suppose to begin a
second adoption from Guatemala before the country closes to US adoptions.
We decide to begin praying and researching the possibility of bringing home
two babies on the same USCIS approval. The journey begins,
again! |